Option B
“Option A is not available. So let’s just kick the shit out of Option B.”
In January 2023, I began to realize Option A (life as I knew it) was about to change. A diagnosis of multiple myeloma would force me to come up with an Option B. This website is my online journal, where I can write, share video messages, and stay in touch with friends and family.
Cindy Made My Day
As Jeri and I were about to get off the ship in Willemstad, Curacao to explore, I got a message from Cindy at the Ottawa County Health Department. She wondered if I had finished the last dose of my treatment for latent tuberculosis. I forgot to message her, but she did not forget me. THANK YOU, CINDY!
What a difference a year makes
As the ship we are on pulled out of Fort Lauderdale, I was filled with emotion that I was not expecting. Not enough to actually elicit a tear, but enough to kind of take my breath away. Even 5 days later, the contrast between March of 2023 and March of 2024 causes my breath to catch just a little.
Option B Part V
It’s been a while since my last vlog on Option B. Here’s Part V, with an update following my March 13, 2024 bone marrow biopsy and restaging.
No bell, just ice cream
For many who complete chemo and radiation, there’s a bell you ring at the end of your last treatment. A victory bell, of sorts. For those with multiple myeloma like me, there’s no bell because there’s no end to your treatment—just maintenance. No bell, just ice cream!
1 year ago today
I never really understood a “cancer anniversary.” This was weird to me. But here we are—one year ago today I got the first inkling that cancer was part of my future.
“Just Don’t Fall”
Back in February when I found out I had a broken vertebrae, I ask the doctor about bicycling. He told me I could ride all I wanted to. His instructions, “just don’t fall”. That meant ride on a trainer inside, which is what I have been doing ever since.
Option B Part IV
You might have heard that my stem cell transplant was schedule for today, September 7. A few weeks ago, we received some new information that caused us to pause and rethink our plan.
Today’s vlog is about this new information and the decision we had to make—do the stem cell transplant, or not.
Because I Can!
I have not met my fundraising goal. The lake is not super warm. It is not the start of summer. And there is no end in sight for my Multiple Myeloma. So, why am I jumping out of the lake in triumph? The short answer is, “Because I Can!” …
Play it “Safe” or take a little “Risk”?
There comes a time in life where you just have to say, “What the…” If you know what movie this comes from your are as old as me or older.
100 grams of protein
You’re a vegan? How are you eating enough to stay healthy?
A lot of concerned, well-meaning friends, family and coworkers have asked about my vegan diet. I promise I’m getting enough protein and all the other good stuff—and WAY less of the bad stuff. Check out my video diary: 100 grams of protein in a day!
Option B Part III
It’s been about 3 months since I last shared the details of Option B with you. Back in March I was just getting ready to start treatment,
How Are You Doing?
Most of us are asked daily (sometimes multiple times per day), “How are you doing?” Often the other person is just trying to be nice and they don’t really care how we answer. They have moved on even before the expected reply, “I’m good, how are you?”
Getting “Crunchy”
I recently went to a vegan restaurant when I was in Columbus, Ohio. EVERYTHING was vegan, even the “meat” and “cheese”!
Sleep(less)
My treatment is going well (starting round 2 of 4), but the biggest side effect of the steroids I’m taking with the chemo is sleeplessness. Here’s a peek at my best night yet!
One day at a time
It's been a month since I first talked about "Option B", and I thought it was time for an update. As I begin treatment Monday, March 13, I want to share an update on how I'm doing, what I'm doing, and the 3 things I need you to do.
God nudge
My mom Karen explains God nudges as persistent thoughts or feelings that we just can’t shake—feeling like we need to take action or engage somehow. I’m not sure if reading Sheryl Sandberg’s book, Option B, was a God nudge, foreshadowing or something else, but it definitely made an impression on me.